Wednesday, September 8, 2021

Eye-Opener

 “Movies can potentially open a person's eyes to new solutions to any number of difficulties and may provide therapeutic benefits in addition to entertainment.” (GoodTherapy)

Do you remember a movie that made you cry, or think about your existence in life? Our answers would probably not the same because of our different backgrounds and preferences. The Back to the Future Trilogy is my absolute favorite movie trilogy all these years later. (If you haven’t watched it, do.) After watching the three films in order, you quickly realize there are powerful, important life lessons such as the following:

·        Don’t let the fear of rejection get In the way of you achieving your best.

 

·        If you set your mind to it, you can accomplish anything.

 

·        Leadership involves making tough choices.

 

·        Seeing choice outcomes in a unique (and creative) way takes courage.

 

·        Whatever you allow in your life, you encourage to being there.

 

·        You are strong enough to resist negative influences.

 

·        Your actions have consequences.

 

·        Your future has not yet happened. So make the best of it.

Cinematherapy involves the therapist-directed viewing of movies for therapeutic purposes. The combination of thematic elements (music, dialogue, lighting, and images) can often evoke deep feelings in a viewer, which allows for personal reflection and provides new perspective on important life events.

Cinematherapy was created and popularized by Dr. Gary Solomon, who was the first to write on the topic of using movies as therapy. The movement started to catch up again in 2019 with the featured documentary Calypsonians.  The idea of this method is to choose films that mirror current problems or situations. The patient should first analyze it with a healthcare professional. 

Cinematherapy can provide a safe way for people to discuss their thoughts and feelings. Direct questions from a therapist may be intimidating to some people (especially those who have difficulty openly sharing their feelings). Cinematherapy can provide a less overwhelming way to talk about feelings as it allows people to explore concerns indirectly by relating to the characters in a film.

Families may find it easier to communicate when they discuss fictional families in movies who face issues similar to their own. They mentally connect what they have discovered about these challenges to their own lives. The use of film has been shown to improve marriages. Couples who watched movies together communicate more effectively, and feel more positively toward each other within five weeks.

How to use movies as therapy:

·        After the movie is over, turn off the TV, and be alone for a few moments. Use this time for introspection and self-exploration. Look at your notes and write more about what you are experiencing. Keep your notes in a place where you can reflect on them for weeks and months to come. Never destroy what you have written.

 

·        Build a library of your thoughts. Write your own book of recovery movies. Whether you watch the movies alone or as a group, you will experience tremendous personal growth and healing.

 

·        Don't miss the beginning of the movie. The healing begins the moment the actors start acting. This includes the opening credits.

 

·        Focus, and make sure you are not disturbed. Turn off the sound on your smartphone to avoid interruptions. Even if you watch in a group, make the movie the main focus. Avoid detours that will take you away from your feelings and the messages the movies have to offer.

 

·        Read first what the movie is about. Read what others have commented about the movie. 

 

·        Select a movie you would like to watch. Choose wisely, and find good movies where directors and producers are recognized.

 

·        Take note, and highlight the subjects you are interested in looking for in the movie. Keep a pencil and paper nearby, and keep a diary of what you are feeling while watching the movie. Before you start, tell yourself that you will focus on your feelings. 

 

·        Take some notes about what you are experiencing. Don't worry about how the notes look or what you're saying. Just put your thoughts on paper. Record your thoughts if you prefer, but keep going through the film.

 

·        Try to identify yourself with a character or situation. What feelings do you experience? Look for the reasons that brought those feelings up. What is happening on the screen that reminds you of something from your past, or someone you know or once knew? Have you been avoiding things, or doing something that has given you a feeling of guilt, anger, or sadness?

 

·        Watch the film from beginning to end. Take your hands off the remote control.

The problem with Cinematherapy is that in this method people may want to treat themselves, and this can be worse if they choose a movie that can cause an adverse effect. So, follow some advice if you intend to use this method:

·        Movies can also worsen some mental conditions. Emotionally charged events in movies can occasionally bring back traumatic repressed memories.

 

·        Nobody should cancel their next therapeutic appointment to marathon a series or plan the use of Cinematherapy as a substitute for professional counseling. Like art and music therapy, Cinematherapy can be a good tool when incorporated into a therapeutic process.

 

·        Not every movie about depression is good for the depressive. Some movies can be quite unrealistic and help create or maintain stigmas and prejudices about health professionals or patients.

“I don't know if i would call it therapy, but filmmaking is really the only thing I know how to do. For me, making movies is a way to bring on change for myself, and I really enjoy that part.” (Takashi Miike)[i]



[i] Adapted from:

·        “3 LIFE LESSONS FROM THE BACK TO THE FUTURE TRILOGY” by Marvivi Explains

·        “CINEMA Therapy ... What is it?” by: Jomel Bajar

·        “Cinema Therapy” from Wikipedia

·        “How watching movies can help depression” by Carlos Magalhaes

·        “Leadership Lessons from the Future” by Jared Narlock

·        “Lessons Learned from Back to the Future” by pragmatic leadership

·        “Movie Therapy” by GoodTherapy

 




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