The
above four words (or some variation of this phrase) have very rarely turned out
to be a positive experience for me in a work situation. Near the end of my 2pm shift on Friday,
9/25/15, the store manager, “Johnston”, asked if we could talk for a few
minutes before I left for the day.
I
knew this was going to be a serious discussion when the assistant manager,
“Red,” was also there with the general manager. The empty chair squeezed into
the very tiny office (along with the other two people) gave me the
visualization of what a sardine must feel like. (The office door was open for
airflow.)
Johnston
felt I was progressing well in my duties as a cashier. (This could be verified
that I had gotten managerial clearance to do my own refunds in just the few
weeks since I’d been there.) He could see (in my eyes) in things like
processing online orders there was a bit of complete fear. Neither Johnston
(nor Red) wanted me stressed out when I left work every day.
They
both reminded me retail was a demanding job. Things were only going to get
worse the closer things got to Christmas. Both men were confident in my
intelligence to be a cashier. Johnston felt I needed to learn to relax more,
and not get stressed over things out of my control (like a register breaking
down, or the amount of time it took to get a long line down with help).
Until
that was mastered he didn’t quite feel he could move me onto the floor to do
stocking, or into the Copy and Print center (which is a very high level of
stress according to Johnston).
My
immediate response to someone presenting something negative in my life has
usually been to verbally deflect with whatever hurtful words I can throw it.
The main purpose has always been to protect “Robert” with the wall I’m building
around my heart.
I
know both the fine men the store manager and assistant store manager are.
Though the discussion was not pleasant, I believe they want me to make sure
that I can be happy with whom I am in a retail environment.
With
some of the health issues I have come to terms with in my life (Attention
Deficit Hyperactive Disorder, bi-polar, brain surgery, and Lymphoma), there is
no reason why I can’t come to terms with my place at Staples (or my absence).
At
this point I have been unsuccessful in employment in one of my two career
dreams of writing (or some creative endeavor) or the Columbus Metropolitan
Library. (Things have not worked out as of yet even though I’ve applied for
both of these.)
Where
do you stand in terms of your employment? Are their difficult questions you’ve
been avoiding answering (for fear of what the final result might be).
Definitely
analyze all your pros and cons in every situation; gain spiritual insight
through prayer and scriptural meditation; and discuss the work situation with a
few trusted close friends. Get out of your rut (or limbo), and finally start to
breathe again.
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