My Attraction

When you meet someone new (that eventually could become a friend), what makes you want to take relationship further? Is it appearance, commonalities (or interests), personality quirks, or how the person could assist you? Chances are you bond with this person because there is something in both of you that clicks when you meet.

I’ve somewhat covered the topic of “friends” in the post Forever Friends. Here’s what I would like to add to that. A good friend can be invaluable in helping to celebrate or figure out life issues. It’s difficult to explain to someone who doesn’t have them how to get them. As life is, they often show up when they are least expected.

Life always seems to be a lot more bearable when there is someone there to help carry the load. Just as you might be accountable to a friend, the reverse is also true. You need to be both honest to your friend, as well as being present for their time of joys and sorrow.

As the old hymn states, “What a friend we have in Jesus…” He understands what your heart is saying when your mouth can’t quite utter the correct words. The Son of God is available 24/7 to communicate with you in prayer. He is closer to you than any family member (Proverbs 18:24). You can bank on that.