Monday, September 30, 2019

Permanent

“Romance is temporary. Bromance is permanent.” (Anonymous)

A bromance is a close, platonic friendship of love, support, and deep affection between two males. Sometimes awkward, yet always unwavering, a genuine bromance is today’s way for two dudes to say, “I love you, man.” If you're a guy who's never had a male best friend, finding your bromance can be challenging.

The origins of the word bromance come from a combination of "bros" (male friends or brothers) and romance.  Bromances are also called "man crushes" because of the level of affection the guys feel for each other. Sometimes the men enjoy spending time together so much that they prefer to hang out with their "man crush" more than their significant other.

While the idea of a bromance isn’t a new one, the word “bromance,” itself – which was first introduced in the early 21st century – entered millennial vernacular and gained cultural notoriety through various forms of popular media around 2005. Men can have close friendships with other men without suggesting there may be romantic ties.

Researchers have concluded that good bromances will release oxytocin in the human brain as well. Increased oxytocin can help men live longer, healthier lives. Here are just a few benefits men gain from increased oxytocin in the brain:

·        Increased generosity-Oxytocin has been shown to boost altruism. In one study, participants who received oxytocin were 80% more generous than others who received a placebo.  

·        Lower cortisol levels-Cortisol, the stress hormone, can have harmful effects on your body, ranging from increased abdominal fat to decreased immunity. Studies show oxytocin reduces the amount of cortisol that releases in response to stressful situations.

·         Pain relief-Oxytocin has been associated with decreased pain and improved healing speed. Studies show it can even raise your pain threshold.
 
“Having a soulmate is not always about romance. You can find your soulmate in a friendship too.” (Anonymous)[i]



[i] Sources used:

·        How to Start a Bromance” Co-authored by wikiHow Staff

·        “Signs You're In A Bromance” by Bobby Box

·        “What's So Great About Bromance?” by Emma Innocenti

·         The Surprising Benefits of the "Bromance" by Amy Morin
 

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