“Which is worse, failing or never trying?” *
When it comes to anything in one’s life, it can be a gamble as whether to stay comfortable with what you know, or to launch outside your comfort zone (to something that might be infinitely better). The possibility of failure can be a great motivating factor to try something new or exist as you are. If you’ve ever considered the above question, what was your honest answer?
When it comes to anything in one’s life, it can be a gamble as whether to stay comfortable with what you know, or to launch outside your comfort zone (to something that might be infinitely better). The possibility of failure can be a great motivating factor to try something new or exist as you are. If you’ve ever considered the above question, what was your honest answer?
Many times age is a determining factor in a person’s boldness in making an uncustomary decision. (The younger adult may not be as settled as a senior individual, who is unwilling to take more risks in life.) With maturity comes the fear of being alone, or starting all over again. Is it better to avoid these factors or to live with regret for the entirety of one’s life?
How our family and friends will react to any choice we make often determines as to how we will respond to life’s challenges (or opportunities). Who purposely wants to cause heartache for those they care for with their preferences?
Honestly, can you be happy if you live 99% of your existence for someone (even if you cherish them dearly). Selfishness is not an admirable quality, but neither is being someone’s co-dependent doormat.
One’s religious beliefs can be a strong motivating factor in how far outside the established norms (or “coloring outside the lines”) to come to the right decision for them. The quality of one’s relationship with the Heavenly Father, or how they interpret scripture can make (or break) what choices an individual makes.
Regardless of all I have said above, there are always repercussions (both positive and negative) to every option one chooses. You alone have to live with what you do. Be ferocious (and purposeful) in every life assessment you make.
The Almighty is there to assist you through the avenue of prayer. In fact, Philippians 4:13 (NIV) says, “I can do all things through Him who gives me strength.” You have a mighty Counselor on your side. Take advantage of all He can offer you through every aspect of your existence.
*From 50 Questions That Will Free Your Mind by Marc Chernoff (www.marcandangel.com)
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