At
work, I wonder how I get into some of the casual conversations I arrive at with
customers. When entering the store, I find the people that enter (or reply back
to my salutation) are generally in a cheerful mood. My wife also works
part-time at the same store as cashier in addition to her full-time job. Bobbi
says she would be thrilled with the happiness of my greeter job because many
times as patrons enter check-out some of the happiness I received has worn off.
As
“Bruce” was on his way to produce, he stopped by my door to see scratch off his
lottery ticket. I asked him what he’d won, and how he cashed in the ticket. I
was told $5, and that he could redeem his ticket at the customer service desk.
I said my obsessive personality prohibited me from gambling and drinking. I
patted my belly, and said the only obsession I indulged in was eating.
In
fact I described my weight issues and my diabetes not being controlled. I told
him my wife had great control with bariatric surgery. (I refrained from showing
Bobbi’s before and after pictures.) Instead Bruce was a great proponent of
exercise and food portioning. Maybe his good friend “Carla” had shaped his
views on food
Carla
was a 680 pound active lawyer. In the midst of rush hour traffic, a box of
donuts calmed her down. When Bruce was invited over for dinner one time,
Carla’s pre-dinner snack was a whole chicken. Food-wise, Bruce (of normal size)
couldn’t keep up with her.
Carla
had a past life regression done. It came out that she was regularly starved as
a concentration camp victim. She felt this best explained why she currently
overate. Bruce believed while he was online with Carla that she passed away.
Her brother later confirmed her death.
Our
conversation concluded with Bruce thinking about paying for an online
ministerial certificate. I felt that was a demanding job that one needed to be
called to. Bruce then proceeded to make one of the most profound statements
I’ve ever heard. It went something like this: “I’ve heard that many people who
believe they are being called to be a pastor is actually an invitation from God
to increased holiness.”
Instead
of running with that in a positive light, my short response went something like
this: “I’m not sure I could ever live up to God’s standard of holiness because
I have so much junk in my life.
Be
open to the variety of people the Almighty may bring into your life. There’s no
telling what you might be able to learn from each other. A short visit may only
occur, or a lifetime friendship could blossom. You have no way of knowing
unless you open your heart to some variety (and spice) of the human kind. Be willing to step outside your comfort zone
when God lays that directive on your heart.
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