Do
you ever find yourself repeating a gesture you remember some relative (alive or
deceased) doing? It can be alarming at times to realize just how much our
family has an influence on us. For me, I have a whole plethora (surplus) of kin
that come to mind with similarities that are evident today.
Janice Zarbaugh – Over the years I’ve watched my mother seamlessly
connect to strangers in conversation; effortlessly speak of spiritual matters,
teach a Sunday School class, or pray daily with my wife. I owe my mother a debt
of gratitude for passing down what others wish came naturally. (Of course, I
believe she is also the one that passed her undiagnosed Attention Deficit
Hyperactivity Disorder, ADHD down to her eldest child.)
Stella Kinker – When my paternal grandmother was frustrated over
something, (this happened frequently when I viewed her) the hands went on the
hips. Guess who does that also?
Robert Eagle – My maternal grandfather was a loveable character
that I very rarely remember him getting angry around me. When Grandpa Eagle
wished to make a point to me, he’d smile, and point his index finger at me to
give his directive. I find myself doing the same thing with our three
Chihuahuas when I wish them to do something.
Think
about how much you are like those that came before you. Rejoice in the unique
person that has made you today. Without them there would be no you. Say, “thank
you.”
In
the attached pictures, Robert and Erma Eagle (maternal) are in the formal
picture. Clarence and Stella Kinker (paternal) are next to a plant. Grandma
Kinker is in her classic pose next to my father’s tombstone.
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