A Double Standard

When it comes to society’s moral code, it can’t be trusted. Where it might be acceptable for a woman to remain a virgin until marriage, a man who makes this decision is thought of as less of a man. Calling a guy a “virgin” past a certain age is considered as evil (I believe) as a girl being raped. Be assured that virginity at any age is the right decision for both a male and female.

Abstinence is the only complete cure to prevent sexually transmitted disease (STD).  Masturbation (for either sex) is not a permissible way to remain sexually pure. The habit is more addictive than alcohol. It promotes a person to go deep into themselves rather than reaching out to things like support groups in dealing with sexual issues.

For teenagers struggling in this area, an item like a purity ring could be helpful. It is an outward symbol to God and family that this person will remain pure until marriage.

What does The Bible say about this topic? I Thessalonians 4:3, 7 Galatians 5:19-21, I Corinthians 6:13-19 and 9:27, Romans 13:13, and Proverbs 5:15-21 are provided for your biblical curiosity. This is not a topic that will be resolved any time soon, but the discussion can begin with this article.