Friday, March 3, 2017

Dream a New Dream

  “You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.” (C. S. Lewis)

“The Journal of Primary Prevention” observes how social isolation has been demonstrated to lead to numerous detrimental health effects in older adults (including increased risk for all-cause mortality, dementia, enhanced risk for re-hospitalization, and an amplified number of falls).

Isolation among seniors is alarmingly common, and will continue to increase in occurrence as the population grows. Learn how to help your loved ones stay healthy by reading more on the ways to help seniors avoid loneliness.  Here are the important ways to encourage connectedness and social health:

1.  Make Transportation Available - Lack of adequate transportation is a primary cause of a social isolation. Because many seniors do not drive, this is a big issue for them. Anything that helps seniors get around and make independent choices about travel promotes their social health.

Creating a solid community transportation infrastructure and providing special transportation options to seniors and disabled people will help promote their public assimilation.

 

2.  Promote Sense of Purpose - Seniors with a sense of purpose or hobbies that interest them are less likely to succumb to the negative effects of social isolation. Besides providing a sense of purpose, many hobbies and interests are inherently social in nature. Anything that involves a group like playing bridge could be said to be socially healthy. If a senior has no ideas for what to do, there are always planned events at the local senior center.

 
Volunteering is also great way of maintaining and expressing a sense of purpose. Encouraging seniors with opportunities to volunteer can help them becoming feeling alone.

3.  Encourage Religious Seniors to Maintain Attendance at their Places of Worship - For seniors who have been regular churchgoers, this weekly social connection has been shown to be quite beneficial. Those frequently attending religious services have been found to have lower mortality rates than those with infrequent attendance. Older church goers benefit from the watchful eye of other churchgoers, who are likely to recognize a decline in an isolated senior that may have gone unnoticed otherwise.

 
4.  Give a Senior Something to Take Care Of - Many experts note that the act of animal companionship can relieve feelings of social isolation. Pet owners remain engaged socially, have less depression, suffer less loneliness, feel more secure, have more motivation for constructive use of time and require less medication than non-pet owners.

Animal companionship facilitates establishing friends, is a social lubricant, provides a reason to get up in the morning, and is an icebreaker. Even tending a garden can satisfy our nurturing drive, so giving a senior a plant or gardening supplies as a gift can be beneficial too.

 
5.  Encourage a Positive Body Image - Many older adults avoid social interaction because of a poor body image. Individuals with a poor body image attributable to being overweight may decrease or cease interactions with their social networks to the point where they could be at risk for social isolation. Individuals who are overweight may be self-conscious or embarrassed, and less likely to engage in their social networks.

 
Compliments can go a long way to boosting the self-esteem of seniors. Discouraging seniors from becoming upset over their appearance may help them avoid becoming self-conscious to the point that they avoid social interactions. Addressing the root problem of being overweight by encouraging healthy eating and exercise can be helpful too.

 
6.  Encourage Hearing and Vision Tests - Seniors with undiagnosed or untreated hearing problems may avoid social situations because of difficulty communicating. A hearing aid may be the only barrier between a senior and better social health. Vision tests are important too as sight problems limit opportunities for social interactions with others

 
7.  Make Adaptive Technologies Available - Adaptive technologies (ranging from walkers to the above mentioned hearing aids) help seniors to compensate for age related deficits and deficiencies that can impede social interaction. Sometimes they may be embarrassed because they don’t want to appear or feel old. In other cases, the device may be overly expensive and not covered by insurance. Adaptive aids may make it possible for seniors to have active and involved social lives.

 
8.  Notify Neighbors - Because socially isolated seniors may be vulnerable to a variety of unexpected problems (like dementia) their loved ones should consider informing members of the community. Trusted neighbors within a block radius should be introduced to the senior if feasible, informed about any particular issues they have, and asked to be observant if anything seems out of the ordinary.

 
9.  Encourage Dining with Others - Food is almost always shared; people eat together; mealtimes are events individuals comes together. Food is an occasion for distributing, giving and sharing for the expressing of compassion. Encourage seniors to share a meal with others whenever possible. It can be with a church group, the local senior center, or a friendly diner. This act promotes better nutrition, which is crucial for the elderly.

 

10. Address Incontinence Issues - A senior who experiences incontinence may be hesitant to leave their home, and could become isolated. When family caregivers and health professionals make sure that incontinence issues are appropriately addresses, seniors can have a better opportunity to recognize their social potentials (and live life without embarrassment and fear of going into public).

 

11. Give a Hug - There’s nothing like a hug from grandma. Research has shown that friendly platonic touching from friends and family (like hand holding or hugging) can lower stress and promote feelings of well-being. People deprived of touch can experience decreased well-being.

 


12. Give Extra Support to Seniors Who Have Recently Lost a Spouse - Older adults may be at highest risk for becoming socially isolated during the period after a spouse has passed away. When you’ve shared your life with a companion for decades, it can be like losing the foundation of your existence when that person dies.

It’s important to provide extra emotional and social support to recent widows and widowers while they are grieving. Go the extra mile and spend more time with the senior in the days and weeks following his or her loss. It helps to encourage a healthy grieving process rather than a spiral into prolonged depression and isolation.

 

13. Identification of Socially Isolated Seniors by Public Health Professionals - Often family members will be the first to notice when social isolation is affecting a senior’s well-being. Public health professionals should be on the lookout for signs of social isolation problems in patients so that appropriate interventions can be arranged. After all, nothing can be done to help socially isolated seniors if no one recognizes that they are socially isolated.

 

14. Help Out a Caregiver in Your Life - Family caregivers who are helping to care for an elderly loved one probably don’t consider themselves seniors (and are probably more concerned about the social well-being of the person they are caring for than their own social well-being).

But many caregivers are fifty plus and caregiving itself can actually trigger social isolation. All too often, they don’t call doctors when they are sick, and they have little or no time to exercise or eat well. If you are a caregiver, remember to take care yourself. It’s not just the person you are caring for who’s at risk of social isolation, it is you.

If you know a caregiver that shoulders the burden of caregiving for an elderly family member, take whatever steps you can to make that person’s life easier, and to allow them to have a social life of their own.[i]

“Whether sixty or sixteen, there is in every human being's heart the lure of wonder, the unfailing child-like appetite of what's next, and the joy of the game of living. In the center of your heart and my heart there is a wireless station; so long as it receives messages of beauty, hope, cheer, courage and power from men and from the infinite, so long are you young.” (Samuel Ullman)


[i] Adapted from “14 Ways to Help Seniors Avoid Isolation” by Jeff Anderson
 







 
 
 

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