I think it’s
important to stop, breathe, and think about how we might encourage those around
us…It just seems to me that we have plenty of negativity to go around for one
reason or another.
So, perhaps
what could set Christians apart most in this cultural moment is…an atmosphere
of encouragement… What if we just took a break…and tried to lift each other up?
I don’t know. I’m just tired of being upset—sad, angry, or otherwise—and I
would love to see a bit more positivity in general. Here are three ways…you can
encourage people:
1.
Tell others
you’re thankful for them - I love writing
physical notes to people. But whether you e-mail, text, call, write…just tell
people you’re thankful for them [and] why…
2.
Take interest
in what others find interesting - I think it’s valuable to share interests and values with
friends, family, and whomever else in order to build relationship.
3.
Listen to
others’ concern, and ask how you can help - One of the best ways you earn the ears of others is by
learning to use your own. Not only that, but when you use your ears and listen
to the concerns of others, you tell them that what preoccupies them matters to
you, and even if you can’t do anything about it, you care…
Just stop talking, and listen to people. Weep with them. Think
with them. Analyze with them. Problem solve with them. Laugh with them. But
first: listen to them.[ii]
“When you encourage
others, you in the process are encouraged because you're making a commitment
and difference in that person's life. Encouragement really does make a
difference.”[iii]
“That’s why you must encourage and help each other, just as you are already doing.”[iv]
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