Bully or Savior?

On Tuesday, a sixty-ish woman, “Natasha,” came to my register to purchase a few items at Staples. In the business of this moment I didn’t recognize Natasha. She commented that she missed me from my other job, and appreciated all of the wonderful service I’d given her. For Natasha, things had never been the same once I’d left.

It quickly dawned on me that Natasha had been one of my regular customers at Meijer’s, where I’d been employed as a Greeter. I don’t remember how I replied to her, but I can tell you that her simple act of verbal generosity changed the trajectory of my workday from alright to fabulous.

Here are a few verses on what the Bible advises on the power of words. Colossians 4:6 (MSG) says, “Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation. [Don’t] put them down, [or exclude them].” Proverbs 13:3 (MSG) states, “[Cautious] words make for a careful life; careless talk may ruin everything.” Proverbs 25:11 (MSG) recommends, “The right word at the right time is like a custom-made piece of jewelry (precious).”

On a regular basis (at my job); If it’s applicable, I slightly bend over in their direction, and whisper a complement to my female customers on their appearance (nice-smelling perfume, beautiful clothing, interesting jewelry, or attractive hairstyle). With men, I try to praise a commonality we both have (during our short conversation). My aim is to have some customers leave with a smile, and feel better about whom they are.

The correct word spoken in God’s timing can be a powerful thing. In your heart, the Almighty will make you aware of the right time (for this). Just be open, and available to His gentle, persistent urging. You could be “a game changer” (or a big difference) in someone’s life.

James 3:5(MSG) tells us, “a word out of your mouth may seem of no account [to you], but it can accomplish anything-or destroy it [for someone else]!”

The question I’m bluntly asking you right now is “Will you choose to be someone’s bully or their savior?” Those are you’re only choices. Neutrality is not an option. What is your response?