Thursday, March 26, 2020

Communication

“For a house to be successful, the objects in it must communicate with one another, respond and balance one another. “ (Andre Putman)

 
A great starting point for an interior design project is to learn a bit about each of the styles and how they differ from one another. A significant challenge many people face is a lack of vocabulary to describe their personal interior design style. With an abundance of unique design styles, it can be daunting to decipher which style will work best for you. Some individuals enjoy combining elements of several styles to create their ideal look.

No matter what space you’re designing (or redesigning), it’s best to define an interior design style that you can use to focus and guide your design and purchasing decisions. As you research different looks, you’ll quickly discover that a whole host of options exist for you to pull from for ideas and inspiration. Which style you select should depend not only on your own taste but also the feel and layout of the space.  It’s essential to know the core aspects of each design element listed below:

Bohemian-Bohemian reflects a carefree lifestyle with little rules except to follow your heart’s desire. Bohemian homes may include vintage furniture and light fixtures, globally inspired textiles and rugs, displays of collections, and items found in widely varied sources including flea markets and during one’s travels. It’s not uncommon to spot floor pillows and comfortable seating spaces when incorporating the bohemian style.

This eclectic style can incorporate an ultra-glam chandelier paired with a well-worn rug and a mid-century chair. Within the Bohemian style, there’s a laissez-faire attitude where anything goes as long as you love it. Bohemian decor captures the carefree and adventurous spirit of the avant-garde lifestyle. It features creative application of rich patterns and vibrant colors especially those with red or purple tones.

The key is to carefully present a purposefully “messy” look. You may layer on textiles (throws, pillows, rugs, tapestry) for a warm ambience. Moroccan, Southwestern, or tribal-inspired designs are currently trending. The concept has its roots in early 19th century Europe, and borrows elements from North African and Eastern design. The golden rule of Bohemian design is that there are no hard-set rules. The style is inherently eclectic and invokes a worldly vibe, with a color palette that embraces earthy, rich colors as well as bright colors and calming pastels. It incorporates metallic accents and a variety of textures - think macramé wall hangings with brass light fixtures - to form a seamless amalgamation of eclectic décor.

Coastal/Hamptons-Coastal style also dubbed Hamptons style, hails from the iconic U.S. beachside area. Common features include light, airy colour palettes with cool neutral shades paired with blues and greens. Furnishings are often white or beige. The room can contain elements of wood and accessories are often inspired by the sea. Blue and white striped patterns for pillows, large windows, white plush sofas, and painted white wood are also common fixtures of the classic Coastal/Hampton style.

The intention is to create a relaxed and comfortable environment that is inspired by the beach and ocean. Warm, relaxing, and positive interior design style is based on white or sand colored foundation, with blue as the primary accent color. Material-wise, coastal decor incorporates unfinished wood in its tables or chairs, combined with chic linen upholstery for your lounge seats and sofas. Your options for decorative accents are many: seashells in clear jars, jute ropes, rowing oars, sailboats, and navigational maps.

Contemporary-Modern and contemporary are two styles frequently used interchangeably. Contemporary is different from modern because it describes design based on the here and now. The fundamental distinction that differentiates contemporary décor and modern style is that, while modern style can trace its roots to the 20th century, contemporary style is more fluid and may include a combination of other styles.  

Contemporary on the other hand, is more fluid and can represent a sense of currency with fewer adherences to one particular style. For example, contemporary style may include curving lines, whereas modern design does not. Contemporary interior design usually has plain spaces that evoke a sense of the clean and classic, with floating furniture that gives the effect of bigger space. Contemporary styles can best be described as elegant with complex details kept to a minimum.

Industrial-Industrial interiors draw inspiration from factories of days past, and today this is most common in urban lofts and reclaimed old buildings now serving as apartments, condos, or working spaces. There’s a sense of unfinished rawness in many of the elements. In this style, expect unfinished surfaces and distressed wood as well as exposed brick, concrete, ducts, and steel beams. An iconic home with an industrial design theme would be a renovated loft from a former industrial building.

Think high ceilings, old timber and dangling metal light fixtures with sparse functional furniture. There may possibly be one or two pieces of abstract art or photography to add a dash of colour to an otherwise neutral colour scheme derived from the primary materials of wood and metals. This is a look that hearkens back to the turn-of-the-century industrial era. It emphasizes liberal use of exposed steel with distressed wooden elements, frequently complemented by exposed brick walls.

The modern variant commonly includes copper-tone accents. In terms of general feel, industrial decor is often rustic and mature. Depending on your tastes, you can opt for a lighter, chic look or a darker, antique design. For a somewhat softer and more inviting feel, try mixing in a few rugs, textiles, and wall art with warm coloring as a contrast to the rest of the raw industrial elements around you.

Mid-Century Modern-Mid-century modern is a throwback to the design style of the mid-1900s—primarily the 1950s and 60s. There is a retro nostalgia present in Mid-Century Modern Design, and also some element of minimalism. Functionality or “fussy-free” was the main theme for Mid-century design. Its emphasis on pared-down forms, natural or organic shapes such as “egg-shaped” chair, easy-to-use contemporary designs and simple fabrications. It easily complements any interior and also helps with seamless transition from interior to exterior. It is characterized by refined lines, minimalist silhouettes, and natural shapes.

From Saarinen, Niemeyer, Eames, Noguchi, Jacobsen and beyond, the mid-century modern masters defined creative ways to use new materials like molded plastic, plywood, and aluminum in industrial design. Its pieces are highly versatile and can complement a myriad of design styles. Warm wood tones are supplemented by earthy tones and warm neutrals, with brass and gold accents adding a pop of glamour.

This style is not limiting, however, and allows for incorporating traditionally cooler tones such as emerald and deep blues, to complement the warm color palette. You can also approach this style from a cooler and brighter angle - white walls, cool pastel furniture, and light wood tones. Mid-century interior design styles commonly showcase pops of accent colors including oranges, yellows, greens, blues, and dark browns.

Minimalist-It takes notions of modern design and simplifies them further. Colour palettes are neutral and airy to balance warmth and coolness; furnishings are simple and streamlined, and nothing is excessive or flamboyant in accessories or décor. The minimalist style can be summarized into minimal concepts - clean lines and functionality.

The industrial interior style is focused on metal, sturdy wooden elements, and often exposed brick walls. Industrial interior designs are inspired by the look of an old factory building and invoke a sturdy, rugged feel. Industrial interior style has two variants: The dark, rugged vintage look and the lighter, brighter yet robust style. It is best in large, open rooms rich with natural lighting. Minimalist styles place the idea that “less is more” front and center.

Don’t get confused though, minimalism doesn’t mean you should wind up with a cold and empty space. It’s about being selective with your design choices so that you rely on straightforward, geometric structures, simple materials and textures, and a color palette composed mostly of black, white, and one or two primary colors. By doing so, you highlight the shape and color of each piece as well as draw attention to the actual space in which they reside. 

Modern-Modern is a broad design term that typically refers to a home with clean, crisp lines, a simple colour palette, and the use of materials that can include metal, glass, and steel. Modern design employs a sense of simplicity in every element, including furniture. A word that’s commonly used to describe modern style is sleek, and there is not a lot of clutter or accessories involved with a modern style.

Modern style is inspired by 20th century décor trends. Modern interior design embraces clean individual elements into a cohesive design that gives an overall welcoming feel without being too loud or daring. Black and white forms the basis of the color palette, complemented by hints of different prime colors like red, yellow, and blue.

Scandinavian-Scandinavian design pays homage to the simplicity of life demonstrated in Nordic countries. Scandinavian furniture design often feels like a work of art, although it is simple and understated. There’s functionality in the furniture along with some interesting lines many of which have a sculptural influence. Other common characteristics include all-white color palettes and the incorporation of natural elements like form-pressed wood, bright plastics, and enamelled aluminium, steel and wide plank flooring.

If there are pops of colour it often comes from the use of art, natural fiber throws or furs, or a single piece of furniture. Spacious, natural lighting, less accessories and functional furniture characterizes Scandinavian designs. An off-shoot of the mid-century modern movement, Scandinavian design introduced a popular minimalist look to the interior architecture field that lasts to this day. Scandinavian furniture is simple, contemporary, and functional. Many Scandinavian designs employ Bauhaus principles and is characterized by fluid lines, focus on object proportions, and populist appeal. Most Scandinavian interiors have a color palette consisting of white, grey, black and wood.

Shabby Chic-Shabby chic is vintage-inspired style, but compared to Bohemian and other styles, tends to be more feminine, soft, and delicate. Shabby chic furnishings are often either distressed or appear that way; paint tends to have antique-style finishes. Light fixture and wall hangings may be ornate and continue the feminine vibe of shabby chic design. Shabby chic decor emphasizes vintage elements to recreate the antique flea market look. The furniture is characterized is distressed wood composition covered in sanded milk paint to show signs of wear and tear.

Decorative accents for shabby chic decor should be soft and opulent often with an affected feel, in order to bring the overall interior design to a contemporary standard. Generously introduce linen textiles for added style. Though orthodox shabby chic colors are white, ecru and pastel don’t be afraid to apply some vibrant colors. This style gained immense popularity in the mid-’80s and 90’s as one of the top go-to interior style designs when looking to evoke laid-back vibes.

Shabby chic ultimately received quite a bit of backlash after having been misbranded as granny decor, however when done properly, it is anything but. The most distinctive feature of shabby chic is the combination of contemporary and modern elements to achieve a unique rugged finish.

Traditional-Traditional design style offers classic details, luxurious furnishings, and an abundance of accessories. It is rooted in European sensibilities. Traditional homes often feature dark, finished wood, rich color palettes, and a variety of textures and curved lines.

Furnishings have elaborate and ornate details and fabrics, like velvet, silk and brocade, which may include a variety of patterns and textures. There’s depth, layering and dimensionality within most traditional designs. The traditional style includes dark/stained wood paneling, coffered ceilings, and built-in cabinets. The style embraces depth, layering, and dimensionality to create a timeless look and welcoming feel.

Transitional-Transitional is a very popular style because it borrows from both traditional and modern design to facilitate a space that’s not “too much,” in terms of one style or another. There’s a sense of balance that’s appealing and unexpected. A transitional design may incorporate modern materials, such as steel and glass, and then unite them with plush furnishings. Transitional design also includes relatively neutral colour palettes, creating a calming and relaxed space that manages to feel stylish and sleek as well as warm and inviting. It places equal emphasis on livability and aesthetics to create a home that feels first and foremost like a home.

This is achieved by combining more traditional functional pieces (such as plush sofas that are first functional and comfortable, then stylish) with trendy accent pieces (accent pillows and wall décor). True transitional style incorporates the clean lines of modern design with more traditional function pieces – say a glass-top steel coffee table with a plush sofa – to achieve a home that is both immaculately styled while maintaining emphasis on day to day life.

 In terms of color palette, this style emphasizes the calm and neutral. Light natural woods, clean white walls, and carefully chosen accent pieces serene tones. The final look is both welcoming and relaxing, and transforms your home into your own personal haven.

URBAN MODERN-Urban interior design stems from the modern designer lofts in the major cities. Taking cues from its cosmopolitan environment, urban modern is a fusion of various opposing and complementary traits. Minimalist modern, glamorous chic, ethnic heirlooms, and edgy experimental designs all collide in a distinctively 21st-century setting. Larger furniture (sofas and beds) tends to be uniformly sleek with low-profile.


Feel free to bring home trailblazing modern furniture designs. Decorative accents (pillows, mirrors, end tables) in urban decor often demands artistic and creative expression – add some elegant geometric designs, or vintage items with traditional embellishment. The urban interior style descends from the sturdy lofts of the large cities, like New York.


This style takes elements from contemporary, modern, and industrial design, and creates a unique environment perfect for cosmopolitan living. The color palette is comprised of a bright neutral base, with plenty of room for rich, bright accents and pops of color. Whether it be a bright yellow sofa or an emerald accent wall, don't be afraid to soften the overall look with rich jewel tones and warm colors.



“Creativity is allowing yourself to make mistakes. Design is knowing which ones to keep.” (Scott Adams)[i]




[i] Sources used:
·        “14 Most Popular Interior Design Styles Explained” by Rochele Decorating

·        “5 Interior Design Styles that You Can Incorporate Into Your Home” By the Art Institutes Filed

·        “Interior Design Styles: 8 Popular Types Explained” by Liana Leahy

·        “Most Popular Interior Design Styles” by CraftSide

 

Wednesday, March 25, 2020

Transformation

“When you want to transform a room into an entirely different animal, change the color.” (Billy Baldwin)

Paint is one of those things in life that can come in just about any configuration that you can imagine and in every color possible. The color of the paint that you use on your home is actually the least important aspect of paint, considering the different types of paints, and the different finishes that the paint can create. You can take the exact same paint color, and make it look multiple different ways, simply by changing the type of paint or the type of finish that it leaves. While it’s true, the hardest part of painting is picking a color, picking the type of paint and the finish shouldn’t be as hard.

When it comes to choosing the right finish for your paint, it’s important to understand the differences between the sheens. The amount of gloss that a type of paint has can make a dramatic difference in the end result of the room so it is important to choose the right finish before starting your painting project. Different moods and styles can be enhanced by a careful choice of finishes. Walls that have imperfections will show much more with a glossier finish than with a more satin finish. Rooms that see heavy traffic will be harder to clean up and touch up with a matte finish than with a semi-gloss.

Paints that have low gloss won’t reflect light as well and are good for a more formal or modern style. Paints that have high gloss reflect light and give a shiny surface, contributing to a brighter look. You've chosen your interior paint colors, and you may be asking yourself, what’s the difference between paint finishes? There are several variables to consider when selecting a paint finish. What’s the difference between matte, satin, flat and gloss paint?

Matte and Flat-These paint finishes deliver a smooth, subtle look and show little to no sheen when dry since they absorb light.

·        Advantages: Matte and flat finishes cover imperfections in surface and application making them a great choice for ceilings as well as walls in the bedroom, dining room, and living room. You can easily touch up this finish.

·        Disadvantages: They hold dirt and are difficult to clean because cleaning can actually remove the finish. Some manufacturers such as Behr, Sherwin Williams, and Benjamin Moore, make washable versions that allow for easier cleaning. Do not use in bathrooms, the kitchen, or a child's room.

Bedroom

·        Requirements – Low traffic area with little light reflection

·        Recommendation – Flat or matte finish

Ceilings

·        Requirements – Inexpensive paint that hides imperfections and doesn’t need to be cleaned

·        Recommendation – Flat or matte finish

Satin-This silky, smooth paint finish retains its pearl-like sheen when dry. This finish is also called eggshell.

·        Advantages: A satin finish reflects more light than matte and stands up well to washing. Use in high-traffic areas such as bathrooms, the kitchen, and a child's room as well as on trim and molding throughout the house.

·        Disadvantages: This finish does not hide imperfections in surface or application. Any touch-ups will stand out.

Dining Room

·        Requirements – Clean-looking, smooth-looking, elegant finish

·        Recommendation – Semi-gloss, satin, or eggshell finish

Family Room

·        Requirements – Clean-looking walls that hide imperfections in high-traffic area

·        Recommendation – Semi-gloss or stain finish

Semi-gloss and Gloss-When dry, this paint finish reflects the most light, providing a bright sheen.

·        Advantages: Semi-gloss and gloss finishes prove durable and washable with semi-gloss offering high resistance to moisture. Use in the kitchen and bathrooms as well as on trim and molding throughout the house.

·        Disadvantages: These finishes show every single imperfection in surface and application requiring additional preparation work and sanding to create a smooth surface. Touch-ups of this finish will stand out because of the difference in sheen.

Bathroom

·        Requirements – Moisture resistance and easy-to-clean walls

·        Recommendation – Semi-gloss or high gloss paint

Hallways

·        Requirements: Easy-to-clean walls that reflect light

·        Recommendation – Semi-gloss of gloss finish

Kitchen

·        Requirements – Easy to clean and durable paint in a high traffic area

·        Recommendation – Semi-gloss or high gloss paint

Interior Trim

·        Requirements – Durable paint that is easy to clean and helps windows pop.

·        Recommendation – High-gloss paint

 “I think I’ll paint roads on my front room walls to convince myself that I’m going places.” (Lemn Sissay)[i]




[i] Sources used:

·        “How to tell the Differences between Satin and Semi-Gloss Paint’ by Accurate Paint of NW Florida

·        “Matte Finish vs. Satin and Gloss: A Guide to Paint Finish Types” by Five Star Painting

·        “Satin, Gloss, Eggshell, Flat…What’s the Difference between Paint Finishes?” By

 

Tuesday, March 24, 2020

Extra Weight

“A study showed that women who carry a little extra weight live longer than men who mention it.” (Anonymous)

As far as records show, women have always outlived men. This is true for every year for all 38 countries included in the Human Mortality Database, which dates back to 1751. Look to Sweden, the country with the best preserved records. The life expectancy at birth in the 1800s was 33 years for women and 31 for men. Today it’s 83.5 years for women and 79.5 for men. Despite all the diseases and natural disasters that have occurred over the centuries, this separation between males and females has remained constant.

Life expectancy in the U.S. is at an all-time high, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). While the news that we’re living, on average, to the ripe old age of 78 years and 9 ½ months isn’t that surprising, there is one statistic that is: A girl born in 2012 can expect to live to 81.2 years—almost 5 years longer than a boy baby born the same year, who's likely live to age 76.4. Men are biologically and sociologically at a disadvantage from the time they’re conceived to the time they die. Here's why:

Women are less likely to be wreckless-Unintentional injuries are the third leading cause of death in men for women it's only the sixth. The frontal lobes of the brain—which deal with responsibility and risk calculation—develop much more slowly in males than females. The result: Guys often take many more risks. Almost inevitably, a male will take risks that a woman of his same age wouldn’t take.

Women are tougher in utero-Two and a half as many boys are conceived as girls, but they’re so much more likely to succumb to prenatal infection or other issues in the womb that by the time they’re born that the ratio is close to one to one. Boys are slower to develop physically than girls prenatally, which means they’re more likely to die if they are preemies due to underdeveloped lung or brain development.

Women have an extra X chromosome-Women have two X chromosomes and men have one X and one Y. These combinations do more than just determine a human’s sex. Women are at an advantage for longevity from the moment their cells begin to develop. The X chromosome provides over 1,000 genes to choose from while the Y chromosome offers fewer.


Since biology shows the female body only uses one of the thread-like structures while shutting down the other, women have an extra sex chromosome to rely on if one is defective. Males don’t have this option increasing their chances of developing genetic diseases linked to the X chromosome. Males also have a higher risk of developing disease due to cell malfunction that can come with age.


Women have stronger social networks-Friends make good medicine: People with strong social connections have a 50% lower chance of dying than those with few social ties. Most men tend to hold their stress and worries in while women tend to reach out and talk to others. The one exception: married men, which also explains why so many studies show that they’re likely to be healthier and live longer.


Women succumb to heart disease later-Heart disease is the leading killer of both men and women, but men are more likely to develop it—and die from it—as early as their 30s and 40s. Women, on the other hand, typically develop heart disease 10 years later than men. They're protected from it until menopause since their bodies churn out estrogen, which helps keep arteries strong and flexible.


The American Heart Association says estrogen increases the amount of good cholesterol (HDL) in females. Since the risk of heart disease doubles for those with high cholesterol levels, as mentioned by the CDC, men are more likely to develop cardiovascular issues earlier than women.


Women take better care of their health-Men are 24% less likely than women to have visited a doctor within the past year and are 22% more likely to skip out on cholesterol testing. In fact more than a quarter (28%) of men don’t have a regular physician and about one in five didn’t have health insurance in 2012. You can blame it on the so-called John Wayne syndrome: Men often deny illness. They minimize symptoms because they don’t want to go to a doctor and find out something is wrong.


Women’s lack of testosterone may increase their life span-While testosterone is generally considered desirable, it may also shorten the length of a man’s life. The Washington Post says evidence suggests eunuchs, men who’ve been castrated, have historically lived longer than other males. The article cites one study involving institutionalized patients in Kansas conducted in 1969.


Researchers saw an increase in lifespan by an average of 14 years among castrated men compared to those who were not castrated. We seem something similar by looking at records from Korea. According to the British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC), biologists examined records from the 1800s that allowed them to verify the lifespan of 81 castrated males, finding they lived roughly 20 years longer than other men.


The story went on to say testosterone may benefit men in the short term by increasing strength and masculinity, but it may also increase risk of prostate cancer, atherosclerosis, hypertension, and other conditions that can negatively impact the length of life.


 “I had patients who didn’t die because they had too many pets to try to find homes for. It’s why women live longer than men with the same health problems.” (Bernie S. Siegel)[i]


[i] Sources used:
·        “3 Reasons Why Women Live Longer Than Men” by Sarah Kaye Santos
·     “5 Reasons Women Live Longer Than Men” By Hallie Levine
·     “BBC” from Wikipedia
 
 

Monday, March 23, 2020

Things

“Evil begins when you begin to treat people as things.” (Terry Pratchett)

While it’s comforting to believe that people are inherently good with infrequent minor lapses in character and willpower, there are other individuals who just prove this philosophy wrong. Have you ever met people who were completely inconsiderate to those around them? People who had no problem hurting other people’s feelings and using others’ weaknesses to their advantage?

An evil person is someone who engages in wicked behaviors.  Some will argue that they’re immoral, ill, or depraved. Those words are hard to define. Immorality to one is normalcy to another. Have you ever met people who were completely inconsiderate to those around them? People who had no problem hurting other people’s feelings and using others’ weaknesses to their advantage?

These types of people are easily available at our schools, churches, in the homes of our friends, and everywhere we look. Below are seven signs that the person you’re dealing with is evil:

Evil people are habitually dishonest-Lying can be used to protect people and prevent conflicts from escalating. This is simply not the case with evil people. More often than not these people will put lies together just because they feel like making up a sensational story even if it means adding details that didn’t exist or speaking on behalf of someone without consent.

When caught, they will either lie some more and provide countless reasons to validate that lie, or just ignore you completely. These people lie to your face because they do not value your trust or your friendship.

 Evil people are racist, sexist, homophobic, or are bigots-Evil thrives when the good are divided. This has made some of the evilest people in the world (from Hitler to Stalin to Osama bin Laden) so wildly successful. They’ve taken the petty differences between people and used it to sow larger rifts that end up in disaster. Often, they use bigotry, homophobia, sexism, racism, and fascism, in general, to keep good people apart, and to breed more evil people in the world. We won’t mince words here: white supremacists, racists, homophobes/transphobes, and bigots are all evil. Be conscious of these types of people. Some are only misled, but many are outright wicked.

 Evil people are strange to be around-It’s been pretty well demonstrated that each of our bodies emit an energy field. It could serve as an intuitive defense system. But in the same way that if you eat bad food, it shows on your skin, if you’re evil on the inside, it shows up in your energy field. This might be why evil people give you a creepy feeling without them having actually done anything evil to you at all. Who they are on the inside can be picked up in their subtle energy field by your energy field.

Often times, the surest sign that someone is evil is that you just don’t feel right around them. You get creepy feelings, and can’t quite put your finger on it. You might sound crazy to people listening to you talk about it, but don’t deny the way the evil people in your world make you feel. Trust your gut, and don’t worry about it steering you wrong. If you get the wrong sense about someone, apologize. Better safe than sorry.

 Evil people avoid responsibilities-They are very cautious and sharp minded. The second they feel like some fingers are going to get pointed at them. They twist that finger away. They would never take responsibility for any kind of mental, physical, or emotional suffering that they have given to anyone. They state that it was their own fault, and they had nothing to do with it. No matter how persistent, sociable, intense, clingy, and fake an evil person is they can always be forced out of your life for good.

They’ll use every tool at their disposal to oblige you to let them stay. They’ll manipulate, lie, pretend to be nice, attack and belittle, and mislead and control. One thing is for sure no matter what, or when you’ve made the call to get them out of your life you can never go back on it. They’ll try to get you to change your mind, but the only way to liberate yourself from them is to leave them behind. You can’t force them to change. They can only change when their hearts are open. They’re ready to atone for what they’ve done, and they’re ready to work hard at reforming their wicked ways.

 Evil people deny reality-They like to bend the world to their will, and everything around them should be to their liking. An evil (or abusive) person will never accept the actual reality. No matter how much you state facts, and try to tell them what is right and what is wrong. Your discussion will always end in losing because they would go to any extent to prove that there twisted version is right when in actually it does not even make any sense.

Evil people enjoy other’s misfortune-It might be a disaster on the news or a dramatic situation in front of them. They seem to delight in misfortune, to relish the bad feelings of other people. All the times that an evil person has been hurt in their life falls away when bad things happen to other people.

The real danger here is that they could create bad situations for you and others in their life in order to be able to enjoy the misfortunate that they create. It is important to recognize who they are before terrible things happen to you and the people they love. If horrible things happening are all that can help them feel better, you can’t salvage or save them.

 Evil people have friends and family that warn you-A lot of the time one of the first signs that a person is truly evil is if their “friends” and family issue you warnings. They might talk about an ex-boyfriend (or girlfriend) who ran from them. They might casually dismiss the problems with previous relationships and make excuses for the evil person in their lives.

This is a sort of manipulation, but it can also be seen as a warning sign of impending disaster. In a sense, these people are telling you that something is wrong, and that it’s your responsibility to do something about it. Other times, the people in their lives will outright tell you that the evil person is not healthy, and that you should avoid them at all costs. In either case, don’t ignore the signs of a truly evil person especially when people who supposedly love them are telling you off about it.

 “Truly evil people don’t just hurt others. They take pride in the pain they cause, and then try to blame their victims.” (Fiona Catherine) [i]




[i] Sources used:

·        “12 warning signs you’re dealing with an evil person” by Lachlan Brown

·        7 Warning Signs that you’re dealing with EVIL person” by Aman Mishra
 

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