Saturday, February 15, 2020

“I learned in therapy the word ‘No’ is a complete sentence.” (Jaycee Dugard)

On the morning of August 23, 1973, Jan-Erik Olsson (who was already on parole for robbery) walked into Kreditbanken, a bank in Stockholm, Sweden. He opened fire on two Swedish police officers before taking four bank employees hostage. As part of the list of demands he issued to authorities, Olsson asked that Clark Olofsson, one of his friends from prison, be brought to him. (Olofsson would become Olsson’s accomplice in the Kreditbanken hostage situation, and he would go on to rob another bank two years later.)

The hostage situation would last six days before police would use tear gas to subdue Olsson and rescue the hostages. The unfolding drama captured the world’s attention. Over the course of those 130 hours, another strange thing happened. Olsson’s hostages began to feel sympathy for their captor.

One hostage, Kristin Ehnmark, told reporters after the ordeal that she and her fellow hostages were more afraid of the police than Olsson. She and her fellow hostages would later tell authorities that they were treated kindly by Olsson even though he was holding them captive. For instance, Olsson gave his jacket to Kristin when she began to shiver, and when Elizabeth Oldgren (another hostage) became claustrophobic, Olsson allowed her to walk outside of the vault where he was holding everyone hostage. The hostages’ sympathy of Olsson continued on even after their ordeal was over, and some of them even went to visit Olsson in prison.

The psychiatrists who treated the victims compared their behavior to the Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) that they saw in soldiers returning from war. That diagnosis didn’t quite fit since the Kreditbanken hostage victims felt emotionally indebted to Olsson. They felt that Olsson (not the police) spared them from death. They were grateful to Olsson for how kind he was to them. This unique set of symptoms led psychiatrists to label this phenomenon known as Stockholm Syndrome.

Stockholm Syndrome isn’t a mental disorder. It is defined as the psychological tendency of a hostage to bond with, identify with, or sympathize with his or her captor. Stockholm Syndrome occurs when someone who is held against their will starts to have positive feelings toward the person (or group) who is holding them captive.

Stockholm Syndrome is classified as a syndrome, which is a condition that’s characterized by a set of symptoms that often occur together. In order to be diagnosed with a syndrome like Stockholm Syndrome. A person has to exhibit most of the major symptoms that are associated with the syndrome itself. Experts believe that it’s the intensity of the experience (not the length of it) that’s one of the primary contributors to whether someone experiences Stockholm Syndrome. Here are the four major symptoms of Stockholm Syndrome:

 The Captor Has Positive Feelings towards the Victim-There are two ways this works. In one aspect, the victim perceives that their captor actually cares about them. This has a lot to do with the “kindness” mentioned earlier. When captors don’t act on their threats—or when they do small, seemingly nice things for their victims—it can seem like they actually care about the people they’re holding captive.

The second way this works is when authorities, like Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) or police negotiators, use tactics to get captors to see their victims as humans. By doing things like asking captors to call their hostages by their first names, the authorities work to humanize the victims. Doing so makes captors less likely to kill their victims because they’re afraid of getting caught. The FBI trains its members to use this tactic to “help preserve life.”

The Victim Has Negative Feelings towards Family, Friends, or Authorities-Because the victim is aligning with their captor, victims begin to adapt to their way of thinking. Since the captors are afraid of being caught and prosecuted, the victims often take on the same anxiety as well. Some kidnappers convince their victims that they are protecting them from a dangerous world not the other way around.

Experts explain that the phenomenon of sympathizing with the captor is a type of hyper vigilance where victims believe that the happiness of their captors is critical to their own wellbeing and safety. When the captor feels happy and safe, the victims are, too. That’s why victims displaying symptoms of Stockholm Syndrome turn on people who threaten the captor-captive relationship including the authorities.

The Victim Has Positive Feelings towards the Captor-Despite being in a terrifying situation, someone developing Stockholm Syndrome will start to sympathize, care about, or feel positively about the person (or people) who are holding them hostage. These positive feelings make the victim more likely to comply with their captors’ demands and feel guilty when they don’t. These feelings come from a perception that the captors are treating them kindly.

These perceived acts of kindness make victims feel like their captors are caring for or protecting them even in a bad situation. This can make victims think of their captors as good people in a bad situation rather than criminals who are breaking the law. For the victim, these positive feelings develop subconsciously and are completely outside of their control. This reaction is their instinctual reaction to a dangerous and traumatic situation, and it’s a survival tactic.

The Victim Supports or Helps the Captor-A symptom of Stockholm Syndrome comes when a victim, instead of trying to escape, tries to help their captor rather than the authorities. In this case, the victim is putting the needs of their captor above their own freedom in order to survive. By this point, someone displaying the symptoms of Stockholm Syndrome believes that their captor might hurt them or people they care about if they don’t comply with their demands.

More importantly, the victim has started to see the world from their captor’s point of view. Helping their captor isn’t something they’re forced to do. People with Stockholm Syndrome do so out of their own free will and their survival instinct. This last symptom can be particularly confusing for authorities, especially when they don’t realize that the victim has Stockholm Syndrome. To make things more complicated, this symptom can also manifest itself in a desire to help captors even after the victim has been freed.

“It’s not always possible to truly know what a person is going through. Even two people who experience the same event will experience it differently. Don’t let anyone else choose your happiness. We all have the power to choose how to feel.” (Elizabeth Smart)[i]




[i]Sources used:
·        What Is Stockholm Syndrome? Is It Real?by Ashley Robinson
·        www.fbi.gov
The three major quotes provided in this post were by Stockholm Syndrome survivors (Jaycee Dugard, Elizabeth Smart, and Patty Hurst).
 

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