Thursday, February 1, 2018

Enjoyment

“Get the earplugs that allow you to enjoy life with everyone else. Hear music, TV, radio, and conversations without hearing your trigger sounds.” (Anonymous)

The literal definition of the medical term misophonia (or selective sound sensitivity syndrome) is “a hatred of sound,” but a person with it is sensitive to certain sounds. Any sound can become a problem to a person with misophonia. People call the collection of sounds that they’re sensitive to their trigger set.

Exposure to a trigger sound[i] elicits an immediate negative emotional response from a person with sound sensitivities. The response can range from moderate discomfort or annoyance to full-fledged rage and panic.

 A person with misophonia can pull back from family and friends in an attempt to reduce the symptoms that they experience when triggered. Misophonia can become so disabling that people won't eat out at restaurants or even with other people at all. People with misophonia are aware that the sounds that trigger them don’t bother other people.  Here are six things to know about misophonia:

6 things to know about misophonia
1.     No one knows why misophonia happens.

2.     There are five main categories of trigger sounds for misophonia: (mouth sounds, breathing noises, vocal noise, body movements, and miscellaneous irritants).

3.     Misophonia starts in early childhood.

4.     Misophonia might happen as a result of some kind of trauma, stress, or anxiety.

5.     Misophonia can be life-altering

6.     Treatments are being worked on for misophonia in the near future (There are two interventions: stress management therapy and exposure to sounds where a sequence of controlled sounds help people tolerate the irritant).

How do you politely say, “The way you’re chewing makes me want to throw up for the rest of my life?” (Anonymous) [ii]




[i] Here is a long list of trigger sounds that can irritate the person with misophonia:
Mouth and Eating: “ahhs” after drinking, burping, chewing, crunching (ice or other hard food), gulping, gum chewing and popping, kissing sounds, nail biting, silverware scraping teeth or a plate, slurping, sipping, licking, smacking, spitting, sucking (ice, etc), swallowing, talking with food in mouth, tooth brushing, flossing, tooth sucking, lip smacking, wet mouth sounds, grinding teeth, throat clearing and jaw clicking.
Breathing/Nasal: grunting, groaning, screaming, loud or soft breathing, sniffling, snorting, snoring, sneezing, loud or soft talking, raspy voices, congested breathing, hiccups, yawning, nose whistling and wheezing. Vocal: humming, muffled talking, nasally voices, overused words such as um or ah (repeated words), gravelly voices, bad singing, soft whisper-like voices and whistling.
Environmental: clicking from texting, keyboard/mouse, TV remote, pen clicking, writing sounds, papers rustling/ripping, ticking clocks, texting and cell phone ringtone. Utensils/metals: dishes clattering, fork scraping teeth, silverware hitting plates or other silverware and rattling change in pockets. Plastic: water bottle squeezing/crinkling, breaking hard plastic and bouncing balls. Wrappers: plastic bags crinkling/rustling, plastic bags opening or being rubbed and crinkling food packages.
Cars: sitting idling for long periods of time, beep when car is locked, car doors slamming, keys banging against steering column and turn signal clicking. Heavy equipment: lawnmowers, leaf blower, air conditioners and chain saws. Impact sounds: other people’s voices muffled bass music or TV through walls, doors/windows being slammed and basketball thumps.
Animal noises: dogs barking, bird sounds, crickets, frogs, dogs or cats licking, drinking, slurping, eating, whining, dogs scratching themselves and trying to bite their fleas and claws tapping.
Baby: Baby crying, babbling, adults using baby talk and kids yelling. TV: loud TV or radio.
Body Movement related: Foot shuffling (dry feet on floor/carpet) or tapping, finger snapping, foot dragging, heels, flip flops, knuckle/joint cracking, eye blinking, nail biting and clipping, eating, chewing, fidgeting, hair twirling, movements out of the corner of eyes, repetitive foot or body movements, jaw chewing/movement
 
[ii] Sources used:
·         “6 Things to Know about Misophonia” by Ariel Scotti 
·        “The Symptoms & Triggers of Misophonia” by misophonia.com
My daughter, Allena, and I both have this. It causes a lot of tension in our family.

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