Tuesday, November 28, 2017

The Temple

Don’t you know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who comes from God and dwells inside of you? You do not own yourself.” (1 Corinthians 6:19, VOICE)

 Since I was a young Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) boy, all I wanted was to be “normal” like everyone else appeared to be.  As a Bipolar man in my early fifties, I know that my bluntness does not allow me to blend in easily with the crowd.  I have my opinions that I have problem letting everyone know.

I am resolved that I will forever be the unique creation my Heavenly Father has made me out to be. When it comes to eating, we all need to be as normal as possible in our relationship with food. (I'm still unsure as to what is "normal" on this topic.) Here are several points to remember when it comes to eating:


1.   Normal eaters don’t plan their food in advance: They eat when they’re hungry, or when dinner time rolls around. They don’t think about food in between those times. They don’t worry about what you’re going to eat for dinner for hours before they get home from work. They don’t spend time creating elaborate meal plans.

 

2.   Normal eaters don’t think they’re doing anything wrong when they eat the bad stuff: Normal eaters don’t attach moral value to what they’re eating. They don’t think the whole world is going to judge them for eating junk food in public, or sneaking it in the middle of the night.

 
While they generally make healthful choices that feel good to their body. They’re not sent into a frenzy when they do eventually have a bite of dessert, or the occasional side order of fries. It’s not a problem.

 

3.   Normal eaters eat when they’re hungry, and stop when they’re full: Eating like a normal person means making decisions about food based on your body’s natural biological wisdom (rather than external cues that imprison you). Your body knows exactly how much food you need to maintain a weight that’s healthy for you.

 

“Create healthy habits not restrictions.” (NataliesHealth.com)

 

4.   Normal eaters have a life in between meals: In addition to not doing food planning, they don’t fantasize about food, dieting, and weight loss all day long. They think about celebrating all the facets of their life. God knows them, and loves them as they are.

 

5.   Normal eaters practice a variety of coping mechanisms, and don’t turn to food to get them through the discomforts: This is the single most important thing to understand about normal eaters. Normal eaters trust that if they let themselves eat what they wanted. They’re able to cope with life’s triggers using non-food-related comforts. This never works.

 

“You don’t cure food addiction by removing all comfort foods. You do it by learning how to comfort yourself.” (LauraHoussain.com) [i]



[i] Adapted from: 5 Ways to Eat Like a ‘Normal’ Person (That Dieters Just Don’t Get) by Isabel Foxen Duke

 




 
 
 

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