Monday, June 26, 2017

The Slap

“Become a worry-slapper. Treat frets like mosquitoes. Do you procrastinate when a bloodsucking bug lights on your skin? 'I'll take care of it in a moment.' Of course you don't. You give the critter the slap it deserves. Be equally decisive with anxiety.” (Max Lucado)

Do you know the similarities and differences between an anxiety attack and a panic attack? (Keep reading below.) The issue of an anxiety attack can be a prelude to a panic attack. An anxiety attack is mild, and comes on gradually. It can last from a short (to a longer) period of time.  The following qualities will be present (in varying degrees):

1.     Restlessness

2.     Fatigue

3.     Decreased concentration

4.     Irritability

5.     Muscle tension

6.     Worrying difficulties

7.     Sleep issues

The disorder of a panic attack is a sudden episode of intense fear that triggers severe physical reactions when there is no real danger apparent cause that lasts for a short period of time. Be observant for any of the following characteristics:

1.     Impending doom

2.     Fear of loss (or death)

3.     Rapid heart rate

4.     Sweating

5.     Trembling (or shaking)

6.     Shortness of breath

7.     Chills

8.     Hot flashes

9.     Nausea

10.  Abdominal cramping

11.  Chest pain

12.  Headache

13.  Dizziness, (lightheadedness or faintness)

14.  Numbness (or tingling sensation)

15.  Detachment feeling (unreality)

The solutions for both a panic attack and an anxiety attack are the same. If you deal with either one of these attacks, see if the solutions below help:

1.   Ask for Help: While some people prefer solitude, you may feel better in the presence of others. Try asking a trusted friend or family member to talk to you. This will bring you out of your head (the worst place to be during fear). When someone talks, keep forcing yourself to think about what they are saying.


Even if it seems impossible, keep bringing your attention back to whatever they are talking about, and join in as best you can. When your mind is focused on something external, you become preoccupied and the fear may begin to subside. Instead, try to create an atmosphere of normalcy, and ask your friends or family to do the same while they help you.


2.   Relax: Take slow, deep, complete breaths to relax your body. This is the first step to reversing the release of adrenaline. Try to find the most comfortable and relaxing position available. Go through your body from head to toe, and focus on relaxing each muscle group individually. Stretching is also helpful as it contributes to a loose, relaxed feeling that will stifle anxiety.

 

3.   Stop negative thinking: Stop negative thinking by shouting the word "stop" really loud inside your head. Often people get into an endless loop repeating the same catastrophic thoughts over and over in their head. Interrupting this endless loop gives you the opportunity to replace the scary message with a calming one. Consistency is key. We must keep bringing our mind back to blankness each time it wanders.

4.   Use Coping Statements: A coping statement is a positive statement that is at least as strong as the catastrophic statement that you have been scaring yourself with. Replace the negative thought with a positive one. Coping statements might be, "I've gotten through this situation many times before and I can get through it again" or, "I am fine, everything is fine." Brainstorm the kinds of fearful thoughts that bring on fright for you, and then make a long list of coping statements that you can look at when you need them. [i]


“When you look at a person, any person, everyone has a story. Everyone has gone through something that has changed their life. Anxiety, depression and panic attacks are not signs of weakness. They are signs of trying to remain strong for way too long.” (Deepika Padukone)



[i] Sources used:

·        “Anxiety Attack vs. Panic Attack: Which One Are You Having?” by Joseph Rauch

·        “Anxiety vs. Panic Attacks: What's the Difference?” bSheryl Ankrom
 
·        “Panic Attack vs. Anxiety Attack: 6 Things to Know” by Kevin Joy

·        “Simple Steps to End a Panic Attack” by Pati McDermott, CHT

·        “Stop an Anxiety Attack in 5 Simple Steps” by Brianna Johnson

·        “What Is the Difference between a Panic Attack and an Anxiety Attack?” by Cathy Frank

 
This topic was suggested by my wife, Bobbi Kinker.

 

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